I am 26 weeks pregnant. I have always enjoyed the experience of taking communion at church. When I go to Lutheran church with my parents they offer individual cups, including some that are non-alcoholic, so I take those. But when I go to Catholic Mass with my husband, they only offer common cup of wine.
Things brings up a few things for me, so I wanted to see what others out there were thinking and how you had resolved this.
First, the common cup poses some risk of getting other folks’ germs, especially during the winter cold/flu season.
Second, wine is wine. In general I don’t think the thimble sip of wine on sunday will cause FAS.
Third, now that I am really showing, I worry that people would judge me if I did decide to take the communion wine. If people were judging me elsewhere it probably wouldn’t matter much, I could brush it off (although truthfully, there is no where else I am contemplating having any alcohol at all). But being judged at church would feel worse to me somehow, more crushing and isolating.
Have any of the rest of you dealt with these issues? What experiences did you have? How did you resolve them?
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